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  • Semana Santa

    Growing up in the Midwest, Easter Sunday was a one-day celebration full of hidden Easter baskets, chocolate bunnies and colored eggs made the day before. In the “good” ole days, we dipped hard-boiled eggs into water and vinegar that was splashed with a few drops of food coloring, then scooped the eggs out with one…

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  • Keep Hope Alive

    Watching the memorial for Jesse Jackson yesterday inspired me to remember—and heed—his rousing words:  KEEP HOPE ALIVE!  When our country went to war with Iran a week ago, hope seemed like a light about to be extinguished, caught between battling factions mirroring their respective intolerances. This cannot end well. After spending my entire adult life…

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  • Hyperempathy

    Yes, it really is a thing—a syndrome—and I am afflicted. In clinical terms, it’s a state of experiencing others’ emotions with such extreme intensity that it causes personal distress and blurs boundaries between self and others. K is well aware of my condition, and commiserates with me often. It’s an affliction that manifests with anxiety,…

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  • Pickled, Gessoed & Socialized

    There have been many times in my adult life when I have set intentions—sometimes even creating visually elaborate intention boards—to attract the energies I need to intiate positive productivity. Not always successful to the naked eye, to be sure. But this year is turning out to be a banner year for generating immediate gratification, both…

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  • Aesop’s Foolish Farmer

    As the calendar flips to a new year, I find myself desperately clinging to the many positive intentions I’d set for myself as they get sucked, one by one, into a vortex of volatility. I thought I was doing pretty well this holiday season, for a change. All the ghosts of Christmases past weren’t exactly…

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  • Gaslighting 101

    Okay, I’m now working on a final (yeah, right) deep dive to enrich and layer my characters even more (gasp), so now I’m working on my antagonist in Pura Vida. He’s gotta be a really bad dude dressed in celestial clothing. But authentic, right?  Otherwise, my protagonist would have been a fool to marry the…

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  • With Friends Like You…

    Depending on how that sentence is finished will convey a sense of rosy euphoria or, at the other end of the spectrum, a sense of doom and gloom. Writing engaging characters and their relationships with others is a complex, often rugged odyssey. Perfect friends, those true-blue-to-the-bitter-end friends, are not very interesting, as far as storytelling…

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  • 6.1 On the Richter Scale!

    For Costa Rica, that’s a temblor gigante! A 6.1 magnitude earthquake is categorized as “strong”, which K and I can attest to after we were jolted out of a dead sleep last night. We gathered the dogs, poised to execute our evac plan to run out front and avoid falling trees and outbuildings until the…

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  • Rainy Season Blues

    As the season crescendoes to its finale, most of us fulltimers cry out with a sodden optimism, “Ojala! The sun will shine soon.”  Sure, we love the opulence of the lush forests, the delicious panoply of the greenest greens on the planet, the extraordinary diversity of wildlife, not to mention the healthiest air on Earth.…

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  • Bury My Heart…

    So, I’m supposed to be working on my Thematic Threads Spreadsheet this morning, which is an amazing writer’s tool that turns out to be quite arduous. Then, against Karl’s wishes, I turned on the news. Big mistake. I try not to be too political on my Blog because we get enough of that on TV…

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